Darker

I asked K for feedback, and got a one word email response: "Darker".

Contacted a Deida trained man I admire and asked him:
1) I can do darker in the workshop, how do I do darker outside the workshop.
2) Is there any sense in asking her "Can you give me an example of Darker?".

Responses:
1) It ain't what you do, it's the way that you do it. So… as you take her by the hand and stroll innocently down the boulevard, feel into her… feel the part in her that wants to be raped by love… touch her hand imagining how it would respond if you were to bind her to a post and flog her… whisper to her that you’d like to tie her to the roof-rack and fuck her in the carpark and get all the local hoods to join in too. Have fun. Be disgusting.

2) I have done exercises with my partner where she does dark, and she does it scarily well. Would it do your lady good to do darkness? Or are you just getting her to teach you? If you want her to teach you, I suggest she ties you into a chair, tie a noose around your testicles and give her the other end of the string. If you are not dark enough, she yanks the string. You’ll soon get the idea, I'm sure.

I emailed (2) to K as a suggestion for our next date.